@sherryfl Husband hadn’t brought up the plans for Mother’s Day so I ask. He listed off normal day things. Then after my not so great, “okay..” he said, “Oh, it’s Mother’s Day. Did you want to plan something with your mom?”
I was more than confused, and explained he should have planned something with me. His thought process was, “That’s a thing? But you’re not my mom. If it matters to you we can do something.”
To be fair, he grew up in a divorced household his whole life with parents that hated each other. So I could see how this might not have been modeled.
But I made it clear, it did not just “matter to me.”
That was yesterday, today is the whole, yeah I’ll take the baby to buy you something last minute.
this is a bit of a bummer