@1shizueallen1 Shit like this is why I am 100% helicopter parenting while my baby is unable to be independent. Not to blame you, OP. You shouldn't
have to feel like you need to hover and you left your baby with people you should be able to trust.
It's not even an overreaction if your baby doesn't have those
known allergies, in my opinion. Maybe you have a certain plan for
introducing allergens? Maybe you have a certain diet you're okay with at this stage and you want to supervise how your child reacts to new things.
Hell, maybe you just don't trust that someone won't cut the food up properly and they could choke! "She didn't know!" - no, she didn't, which is why she shouldn't have been putting food anywhere near someone else's child. Not just child.
Baby.