marybelshe
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Is anyone one and done because they were the older sibling in their family. I’m the oldest of 5. I was never the favorite child. My younger siblings got away with everything while I was expected to “set a good example”. I always had more chores and responsibility because your X age now. But somehow the younger ones didn’t get the same responsibility when they reached X age. They just got an extended childhood, while I got an early adulthood. I’m one and done in part because I don’t want my child to go through this. While I hope I’d do better as a parent I still don’t want them to have to grow up as the older sibling. Because I hated it so much.