@semiprecious How does any sane adult stand there and say such rude, cruel things in front of innocent little children?? Never mind the fact that he doesn’t even know why you have that many children with you AND has no idea what some of these children are going through. I’m so sorry if your niece understood what he said and took it to heart, I really hope she didn’t.
You should have laughed and told him you’ve only given birth two times, the rest of these kids? You just found them in the parking lot and decided to keep them. I mean honestly, he looks at 4 girls all the same age and assumes you chose to have 7 kids? Haha, try again buddy. Nobody gets pregnant and crosses their fingers for triplets, but you love them just as much if you get them. And I assume niece doesn’t look the same as your triplets, especially given that if I recall, only two of your triplets are identical. I mean, how did he think you had that many 4-year-olds of your own? Didn’t something click in his head that obviously, this is some type of special case?
Also, I love how he magically knows you’re on food stamps. Not that it matters because I think every child should be fed, no matter the cost, but does he have x-ray vision? Can he somehow see an EBT card through your wallet, through your pocket or purse? Hmmm I didn’t think so.
Some people just need to buy the roll of duct tape they came to the store for and use it to shut themselves the fuck up, and go home. Be a bitter asshole on your own private property.
You’re a wonderful person and a wonderful mother. Keep doing you, food stamps or not. Whatever it takes to feed those babies— and that’s YOUR business. Not his or ours or anyone else’s. People will make assumptions. Keep your head held high and remember that you’re awesome. You’re an awesome mother and you’re an amazing aunt-turned-mother. You’re also a great influence for these kids, showing them what family and love truly means, to take in your niblings. Not everyone would or could do it. You’re honestly a role model!
Thank you for being you! I am 100% certain that you don’t hear that enough.