@mariet9 I'm sorry, I'm now going to go off on a vent that's not directed to anyone.
This is exactly why people claiming infertility rubs me up the wrong way! I'm so sick and tired of people romanticizing medical conditions like its something cute and to get you more bloody likes or upvotes. Two people, two! Went on how they had colon cancer after my husband was diagnosed. I sat with them and asked them all about their testing and have they gone to scans and doctors so I could help, they did none of that. They diagnosed themselves with cancer because they had stomach pain and hadn't even been to the doctor!
and no, one had an ulcer and the other had heartburn. Are you fucking kidding me! None of this is a bloody joke.
Now we were told its 50/50 just on his side but would I dare go around claiming something that we chose not to yet look into with testing. No, this is just going to take away from actual people with actual diagnoses that need the actual support and treatment.
None of this is cute, its tone deaf and irresponsible.
That said, I do think its normal to have some worries especially after a few cycles but until one sees a doctor and has testing, one can't just make assumptions.