@kolpevibeli I had similar thoughts, but we’re expecting our first in a few weeks, and I’ll be 43 in July. Sure, I may be fat, bald, and grey when he graduates high school, but I’m fat, bald, and grey already, so I may as well be a dad, too!
Look through these comments - there will be plenty of us 40+ new dads that it will be a new(ish) norm. If you want to be a father, and you’re prepared with everything but youth, you’re more than ready.