@arrowzahns This is a ridiculous expectation on your husband's part. When sharing a bedroom, it is only common sense and courtesy that you will try your best to keep the room quiet and dark while others are sleeping. I share a room with only my husband. I'm the first one to get up in the morning. I set out my clothes at night so that I can easily throw them on in the dark without banging my dresser drawers, brush my teeth (also in the dark,) and sneak quietly out. I can easily get ready and out by the light of my phone screen. It's a bit inconvenient, but isn't it basic politeness not to wake up my husband with the lights and kids in the next rooms with noises? Also, he comes to bed later than me, quietly and without turning on lights.
And a baby at bedtime?!? That's a whole other level.
Doesn't your husband realize that past, like 7 or 8pm, the best baby is a sleeping baby? If he let kiddo get to sleep, he could have quiet, peaceful kid-free time! (No offense to your daughter, I'm sure she's delightful!)
And a baby at bedtime?!? That's a whole other level.
Doesn't your husband realize that past, like 7 or 8pm, the best baby is a sleeping baby? If he let kiddo get to sleep, he could have quiet, peaceful kid-free time! (No offense to your daughter, I'm sure she's delightful!)