barbaravaill
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@goldensleather Just wanted to post that you are not alone. My husband burned out in a bad way from his ultra-specialized engineering job last winter, and I told him to quit because I did not want to live with an angry, exhausted, crispy husk of a human anymore.
Now it’s 6 months later, he’s still angry and burned out, and now he’s blaming it on our kid and me. We had a big blow up a couple weeks ago in which I said THERAPY and MORE THERAPY or else, and I’m waiting for it to get better. He hasn’t done a job search since he started his old job 15+ years ago, and I am trying so hard not to project manage him and further piss him off. At least I got him to take over making dinner and doing most of the grocery shopping…
Now it’s 6 months later, he’s still angry and burned out, and now he’s blaming it on our kid and me. We had a big blow up a couple weeks ago in which I said THERAPY and MORE THERAPY or else, and I’m waiting for it to get better. He hasn’t done a job search since he started his old job 15+ years ago, and I am trying so hard not to project manage him and further piss him off. At least I got him to take over making dinner and doing most of the grocery shopping…