ajewelinhiscrown
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Today, I'm driving my family to catch a ferry. We stop at a grocery store. We park in front because all the spaces are taken and my wife is running into the store, but now my 4 y/o has insisted on going with her. My 1 1/2 y/o has been screaming for the past ten minutes because she wanted to get out of the car seat, but I just couldn't stop at that point to simply walk her around on the side of the highway. So she's had it and my 6 y/o has also asked to go into the store, and my wife is fine with taking all of them while I wait outside. So I'm helping them all get out of the car. We're not in a parking space, but we're not blocking any car's path in the parking lot either.
This SUV driven by an obviously well-off white couple keeps inching closer and closer to my car with the woman in the passenger seat. This was stressing me out. I was already stressed out with my child screaming and I was constantly watching the time due to the ferry departure (as I do). But these people weren't simply driving past us. I could still see them in the corner of my eye staring us down. They obviously weren't going to just go around me. I hate this.
So I walked up to the car. I didn't yell, but I absolutely asserted dominance and emphatically said to them: "My kids are screaming. I'm getting them out of the car." I then gestured with both hands like an aircraft marshaller on the runway directs a plane: "Go around me. There is space. Go around."
This whole time the husband said nothing, because I'm sure he could understand my plight and his wife was likely the one in the car complaining about having to drive around us, which is literally not a problem whatsoever, she was probably just being, well a you know what. So the husband slowly drives around my car, while the wife who was clearly NOT happy she was being told what to do (and why not? They weren't going around me to begin with, so they obviously needed direction from someone 25 years younger than they were) just stared at me and said sarcastically, "Good parenting. Good parenting." as they left.
Well, it was good parenting. I was putting my kids first. I was helping get them out of the car, including my screaming 1 1/2 year old who had had enough and needed a break. Why prioritize complete and total strangers who are wealthy 65-70 year olds with NO kids who are out for a leisurely grocery store run? I'm the one who needed someone to spare me the hassle of dealing with them as I was already dealing with my three kids and helping my wife.
Thoughts?
This SUV driven by an obviously well-off white couple keeps inching closer and closer to my car with the woman in the passenger seat. This was stressing me out. I was already stressed out with my child screaming and I was constantly watching the time due to the ferry departure (as I do). But these people weren't simply driving past us. I could still see them in the corner of my eye staring us down. They obviously weren't going to just go around me. I hate this.
So I walked up to the car. I didn't yell, but I absolutely asserted dominance and emphatically said to them: "My kids are screaming. I'm getting them out of the car." I then gestured with both hands like an aircraft marshaller on the runway directs a plane: "Go around me. There is space. Go around."
This whole time the husband said nothing, because I'm sure he could understand my plight and his wife was likely the one in the car complaining about having to drive around us, which is literally not a problem whatsoever, she was probably just being, well a you know what. So the husband slowly drives around my car, while the wife who was clearly NOT happy she was being told what to do (and why not? They weren't going around me to begin with, so they obviously needed direction from someone 25 years younger than they were) just stared at me and said sarcastically, "Good parenting. Good parenting." as they left.
Well, it was good parenting. I was putting my kids first. I was helping get them out of the car, including my screaming 1 1/2 year old who had had enough and needed a break. Why prioritize complete and total strangers who are wealthy 65-70 year olds with NO kids who are out for a leisurely grocery store run? I'm the one who needed someone to spare me the hassle of dealing with them as I was already dealing with my three kids and helping my wife.
Thoughts?
