@naty
Her kid who was 3 just randomly ran off and she couldnt find her...she was like "oh well someone will find her." She was so relaxed bc she had 3 or 4 people there helping her.
...wow lol. I can't imagine just not being bothered by the fact that you can't find your kid???
But I also totally understand what you're feeling. I have 2 kids and I literally keep a mental list of which parks are okay for us, and which ones are too big/spread out. I have to be able to keep both kids in my eyeline at all times, and there are a lot of places that just don't work for that. When my husband is able to go out with us, it is SO much easier because we can each just stay with one kid. And yeah if we had even more adults, then it'd be even better lol.
it was because I was always "on". Its such a different world and the fact that people think its easier or that I am lazy is annoying.
Such a hard part of being a SAHP. There's just no breaks, there's no "end of the day", it's just nonstop. And even when you can get someone to watch the kids and get time for yourself, it's so easy to feel
guilty about it. Like nobody else feels guilty about taking breaks at their job, or having weekends off, but if when I take 2 hours out of a whole week to go out without the kids, I get stuck feeling like I'm a bad mom or that I'm inconveniencing my husband or something. Blah.