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My baby is 12 months and my husband just told me he’s firm on OAD. I’m not, I want 2. I was an only child growing up and I yearned for a sibling. (Sure there were definitely pros but I so badly wanted a sibling as a child, now it’s fine but back then I hated it).
And I find being a mother is my calling and so fulfilling. Ideally I’d have like 3 kids but it sounds like I’ll be lucky if I can have 2.
Just wondering how other people deal with this in a marriage and not gain resentment towards spouse who wants OAD. Also did they ever change their mind? Is that even likely?
My baby is 12 months and my husband just told me he’s firm on OAD. I’m not, I want 2. I was an only child growing up and I yearned for a sibling. (Sure there were definitely pros but I so badly wanted a sibling as a child, now it’s fine but back then I hated it).
And I find being a mother is my calling and so fulfilling. Ideally I’d have like 3 kids but it sounds like I’ll be lucky if I can have 2.
Just wondering how other people deal with this in a marriage and not gain resentment towards spouse who wants OAD. Also did they ever change their mind? Is that even likely?