@disciple2011 He's spot on. I'm in my early 30s, and no way in hell will
commit to a woman with children.
You may be able to find a guy who's in his physical, monetary prime - but doing so will require a lot of work from you. Most dudes who get to this age and have taken moderate care of their bodies and have a solid career have options (finally).
It really shouldn't be controversial, but I admit I say this in the anonymity of Reddit because it's really distasteful to say the reality. Your sexual market value (smv) has substantially decreased. Again, you may be able to pull some guy in his 30s, but keep in mind you're competing with every girl your age, who doesn't have kids, all the way down to 18.