@renette My daughter was two when we decided and did the vasectomy. She's almost five now and restarting now would SUCK. She's potty trained, sleeps thru the night. We're besties. I can't imagine adding another this late in the game.
@beautiful_letdown Yeah I see why people who want multiple kids do them closer together in that sense. I’m looking forward to that age! The sleep does sound heavenly to me with a newborn currently lol
@renette She MOSTLY sleeps thru the night. We get the occasional nightmare or illness or whatever that messes us up. But I do recall the newborn lack of sleep and just know that it does get better.
@renette Ours has moved time and time again. But currently our only is 3.5 and if I am not pregnant by September (meaning I would be just shy of 40 when due) then we are 110% done. I personally don’t want kids after 40.
@renette I delivered my son a few weeks shy of 35 and pregnancy was totally fine on my body, but after - no one tells you the physical tole of being a mom. I don’t think my lower back will ever fully recover from carrying a kid.
@renette We tabled the discussion for the first year. Too much turmoil to really think on it properly, and it was recommended I wait at least a year to heal anyway (c-section).
