prodigallane
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For context: single mom, 2 kids, high conflict divorce, kids don't wanna go to my ex anymore but are required to do so (court order), my 9 y.o. girl can get extremely angry for something very insignificant (e.g. when we play a game and she loses, when we go swimming and she gets wet (yes, really), when we go some place and she doesn't feel like it, etc.). She is getting help and the child psyhologist told me her having to go see her father against her will may explain her anger.
For argument's sake, let's just assume the above is correct. My question is not about the above. My question is about the following:
I understand my question is somewhat controversial, but I just wanna help my little girl.
Can I trigger her so that she gets angry, record it and then show it to her so that she learns? I just want her to see her anger is not in relation to whatever it is that triggered her.
For argument's sake, let's just assume the above is correct. My question is not about the above. My question is about the following:
I understand my question is somewhat controversial, but I just wanna help my little girl.
Can I trigger her so that she gets angry, record it and then show it to her so that she learns? I just want her to see her anger is not in relation to whatever it is that triggered her.