@rootsrockreggae I worded it wrong, I didn’t mean the statistics were extreme. It just seems like you’re on a self-fulfilling mission to point out how you’ve been wronged and now every person should most definitely be terrified of this procedure. That’s the extreme part.
I think most people appreciate honesty about risks, but there
is a middle ground of sharing information without trying to cause fear.
And in this case, reading the room is also important.
This thread (and sub) is full of women who have horror stories about traumatic births, having emergency surgeries, having miscarriages, living with hormonal issues that affect quality of life, and emotional and physical pain for life. So yeah, we understand there are always risks. Your desire to make it about you isn’t gonna be well-received here.
But again, I’m sorry it happened to you.