slamdunker
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@nocalove I feel you, it’s like you wrote my own story. In the end of mine though after my emergency c-section, my husband ended up caving and got the vasectomy. He said after watching me almost die on the table that it was the “least he could do”. I would agree it was the LEAST. He nursed the “surgery” for 2 full weeks after. Love him to death but getting him to fully understand how straining additional hormones and the stress of carrying all the family planning responsibilities can be. It’s a partnership right.
With that said I’d tell you and your DH the same thing. Sex and contraception takes 2. You’ve put in 20 years now it’s his turn to make a sacrifice for his family because you are done, full stop. He doesn’t want a vasectomy, okay then wear a condom.
With that said I’d tell you and your DH the same thing. Sex and contraception takes 2. You’ve put in 20 years now it’s his turn to make a sacrifice for his family because you are done, full stop. He doesn’t want a vasectomy, okay then wear a condom.