@mikecrb I think women as a whole are becoming more aware of their ability, and the necessity, to take care of themselves first. “Back in the day” if your husband wanted 2 kids then you had 2 kids, because it was your job to be a mother. Your husband didn’t really care how hard it was to take care of 2, because he wasn’t the one caring for them. Women have had their mental health needs eschewed for centuries; you’re burnt out, your uterus is dangerously close to rupturing, you had hard pregnancies, you almost died in child birth, you have no support, having multiple kids sounds like a nightmare… who cares, that’s just part of being a woman and a mother! /s
I think women as a whole are becoming more comfortable with saying “Hey, one kid is hard enough and it’s not worth sacrificing my happiness for more.” Because I’m openly OAD I’ve had more and more moms of 2+ I meet say things to me like “I see the appeal of having one one…” etc. Some women absolutely know they want 2+ kids. A lot just think they were expected to and were too afraid to rock the boat.
I think women as a whole are becoming more comfortable with saying “Hey, one kid is hard enough and it’s not worth sacrificing my happiness for more.” Because I’m openly OAD I’ve had more and more moms of 2+ I meet say things to me like “I see the appeal of having one one…” etc. Some women absolutely know they want 2+ kids. A lot just think they were expected to and were too afraid to rock the boat.