I recently had a baby. She is 5 weeks old today. She’s so amazing and I love her so much. I also have Bigs, ages 21,19,
17. Whom I diligently and successfully AP parented them to now. Yes, your babies will still want them cuddles from an attached mama as bigs. They still love getting snuggles with mom on vacation in with blankets lol Old habits die hard I was on the peanut app for my bump group and it was all fine till babies started arriving. Women talking about leaving their newborn to CIO when they are less than 3 weeks old bc they “couldn’t figure out” what they needed. Talk of sleep training. Of “Velcro babies” among other horrifying things to hear of mothers of e brand new babies. I tried to stick around and give some good advice but the pain and tears that came from reading their disconnected posts just lead me to deactivate and delete the app. There’s no use in reading things that upset me. How dare those mothers bc they try 3 things leave their brand new tiny scared baby to cry alone. Talks about sleep training… disgusting. I just can’t. I’m glad I left. I’m glad for this group. I’m glad to remember how different I parent then other parents and it’s okay to not be around those type of parents. I had completely forgotten. This is just a rant. So glad to have this group who is attentive to their little babies. AP hugs for you all
17. Whom I diligently and successfully AP parented them to now. Yes, your babies will still want them cuddles from an attached mama as bigs. They still love getting snuggles with mom on vacation in with blankets lol Old habits die hard I was on the peanut app for my bump group and it was all fine till babies started arriving. Women talking about leaving their newborn to CIO when they are less than 3 weeks old bc they “couldn’t figure out” what they needed. Talk of sleep training. Of “Velcro babies” among other horrifying things to hear of mothers of e brand new babies. I tried to stick around and give some good advice but the pain and tears that came from reading their disconnected posts just lead me to deactivate and delete the app. There’s no use in reading things that upset me. How dare those mothers bc they try 3 things leave their brand new tiny scared baby to cry alone. Talks about sleep training… disgusting. I just can’t. I’m glad I left. I’m glad for this group. I’m glad to remember how different I parent then other parents and it’s okay to not be around those type of parents. I had completely forgotten. This is just a rant. So glad to have this group who is attentive to their little babies. AP hugs for you all