@neverbeenalone I have a theory it's better to transition before they challenge the crib, because at that point, they're going to challenge any sleep space. When we switched our toddler, she didn't even try to get out of the bed, but she hadn’t been trying to escape our crib, either, so it didn’t occur to her to leave bed without us.
To this day (she's now almost four) she still waits for us in bed in the morning.
To this day (she's now almost four) she still waits for us in bed in the morning.