Husband is furious with me

[lewis977]

@billysurya91 Ooooh, I like that

 

[tjweb]

@erogrers01 Fuck around and find out.

I'm so adding that to my list of phrases.

 

[derek1111]

@erogrers01 I’ve given up honestly. However, I’ve told myself that if I do all the work then I’ll take myself shopping at the end of the week. Nothing too fancy but maybe a meal in the car to myself, new pints, or mew clothes or jewelry. At this point, I’m married and in it for the long haul. I’ve tried to get him to clean toilets or even wash the food down into the sink.... not a thing. So, I’ll treat myself!

 

[nyokabi]

@derek1111 I love retail therapy! It’s a little harder now, lol. My husband f-Ed up big once ( nothing that would damage our relationship or abuse or anything like that), so I took our credit card and went shopping. After $300, I felt better and he apologized AND I got to keep what I bought. He has never done what pissed me off again. Now I joke, “Do you want me to go shopping again?!” That’s usually enough for him to laugh and cut his shit. Love that man, even though he is a piss pot.

 

[derek1111]

@nyokabi Hahaha I just tell him that every time I have to flush someone’s pee I give myself $5 a flush fee and move on. I remind my kids and hopefully they’ll get it, husband included but if not, I still win! And the house should always win lol

 

[nyokabi]

@derek1111 Ha! That’s right! I should start imposing fees
Hubby would be broke in a week! Lol

 

[lloydk]

@erogrers01 Lmao right men really have the audacity

 

[missionaryadvocate]

@erogrers01 I kept a log in a notebook for a couple days. Wrote down every single physical, mental and emotional labor task. Hit three pages before lunch.

 

[katrina2017]

@erogrers01 Yeah my husband had to stay home for a while earlier in the pandemic while I worked and he nearly lost it lol. It’s a lot more work than “going to work”

 

[erogrers01]

@katrina2017 My ex couldn’t even handle the kids for 6 hours while I was at school once a week.

 

[truthbeliever7]

@ragnar98 It’s just incredible to me. It must be nice to have time off and a choice on if you want to parent or not.

 

[bedia]

@ragnar98 I hate when husbands say we do nothing. Like what? OP clearly is a hard worker, she does more for the household than I do honestly. My husband still routinely says I do nothing even though I'm the primary breadwinner and do 90% of the childcare, plus a large portion of housework (clean bathroom, laundry, take out trash). Unbelievable.

 

[obolixterix]

@bedia Need a new husband by the sound of it

 

[newcombe2]

@bedia Stop doing his laundry. This is a problem that will affect only him. He can learn to do laundry.

 

[bedia]

@newcombe2 True. To be fair I only do his laundry once in a blue moon

 

[lloydk]

@bedia Wow I'm so Impressed you can do all that that's amazing mama!!! Us mom really are super humans lol

 

[adorkable]

@ragnar98 My husband said some bullshit about how he's the only one who takes out the trash. I said, "wanna trade?" cue deer in headlights "huh?" Well... I'll handle all the trash if you handle all the diapers, bottles, naps and bedtimes for both kids. "no deal"

ok then kindly stfu

 

[missionaryadvocate]

@adorkable When mine starts saying that he always/never does something that I know isn’t true, ie always take out the trash, I start logging each and every time I do something or something doesn’t happen on our shared calendar for about a month. He usually gets the hint.

 

[adorkable]

@missionaryadvocate what bugs me is I don't nag or criticize. We both have ADHD, we both forget shit a lot. like look in the mirror first please and thank you

 

[servant1970]

@ragnar98 A fuckin men.