@spacecadet3767 This is exactly it. I’ve asked my mom about this because I feel exactly like OP some days. As another commenter said there were late night cleaning tasks that my mom did that I never saw, and it also wasn’t like that when we were little. As we got older and less demanding than mine currently are is when my mom was the mom I remember, not in the little kid days. I really beat myself up about it for a little while until I confessed to her how I was feeling. She told me I wasn’t being realistic.