@lesbian5eva I was too fried after taking care of the baby all day and being up in the night with him to work that late. Plus it eliminated all of our family time together.
What works for us is a nanny coming in for a couple hours in the morning while we are both working. He works outside the home and I work at home part time. Then I take the baby in the afternoon until my husband gets home and finish up any work that needs finishing while he has the baby.
One day a week the nanny comes for a couple hours while I'm working and he's home to give him a chance to catch up on sleep (shift work life). I get a break for a couple hours one day of the weekend to sleep in.
It's not a perfect system but it works for us.
What works for us is a nanny coming in for a couple hours in the morning while we are both working. He works outside the home and I work at home part time. Then I take the baby in the afternoon until my husband gets home and finish up any work that needs finishing while he has the baby.
One day a week the nanny comes for a couple hours while I'm working and he's home to give him a chance to catch up on sleep (shift work life). I get a break for a couple hours one day of the weekend to sleep in.
It's not a perfect system but it works for us.