@littledot If your only reason was “I don’t wanna” it would be enough. My boyfriend is an only child and I’m not. He adores being an only child because he had a great friend group and saw his cousins often but his parents were able to easily support them and him. I LOVE my siblings to the moon and back but there were many moments I felt like mom and I feel having so many kids stressed my parents out so much financially and made our relationship strained especially with my dad. You are far from selfish for wanting one it’s what you want.