@obedientsacrifice Aight so imma go ahead and suggest Plan B
You gotta take a look at your daughter as a new leaf in your life and accept that you are gonna have to do things that make you uncomfortable for her benefit.
You might just have to limit the exposure without explaining why (I suggest you confront them, but if you truly can’t then I get it - but confronting them is the best option, and if you have to get aggressive if they don’t take you seriously then you need to get aggressive even if it’s not in your character)
You have to do what makes you feel comfortable as a new mother. And sometimes in life, in order to get comfortable we gotta get uncomfortable first
Motherfuckers will walk all over you if you let them - even family. You have to DO something at the very least, trial and error baby
Edit: also if u not close with anyone in your family, that ain’t by coincidence!! There’s a reason for that shit. Why do u want your daughter to get close to people you yourself aren’t close to? Yo I get it, family family family, but sometimes u gotta say “fuck that blood shit” and really wonder what is the ACTUAL benefit of your daughter being close with people YOU yourself are NOT close with![Smile :) :)](data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7)
You gotta take a look at your daughter as a new leaf in your life and accept that you are gonna have to do things that make you uncomfortable for her benefit.
You might just have to limit the exposure without explaining why (I suggest you confront them, but if you truly can’t then I get it - but confronting them is the best option, and if you have to get aggressive if they don’t take you seriously then you need to get aggressive even if it’s not in your character)
You have to do what makes you feel comfortable as a new mother. And sometimes in life, in order to get comfortable we gotta get uncomfortable first
Motherfuckers will walk all over you if you let them - even family. You have to DO something at the very least, trial and error baby
Edit: also if u not close with anyone in your family, that ain’t by coincidence!! There’s a reason for that shit. Why do u want your daughter to get close to people you yourself aren’t close to? Yo I get it, family family family, but sometimes u gotta say “fuck that blood shit” and really wonder what is the ACTUAL benefit of your daughter being close with people YOU yourself are NOT close with