@nessofonett05 With my oldest, I got up most of the time. With the second, we did it a bit differently.
He was born in 2021 and we were both working from home.
I went to bed at 7ish when my daughter did. And my husband stayed up til midnight-2am in the living room with the newborn. I took over any night feedings after he went to bed, which was like maybe 1 or 2. Then, I’d get up when the toddler woke up. This way, we both got 5-7 hours uninterrupted sleep.
Sometimes I’d stay up and he’d go to bed early.
Then one or both of us would take a nap during the day if needed.
With working from home, he could be flexible with his hours so he’d get up like 8-9ish