@fundisi Reasonable af!!!! And yes you are being too nice, but i get why you are doing it. Ask yourself would should extend the same courtesy to you? She made the decision of driving drunk and taking your kid with her. This is a big red flag and as the parent it is your job to protect your child safety at all cost even if thats against his own mother. Stand your ground and take full control until she proves she will no longer make stupid decisions like this one. You owe it to your child to protect them and keep them safe. The situation could of been a lot worst. What happens next time she pulls something like this and she has your child in the car. Too many sad stories so i wouldnt take any chances and take full control until she proves she is worthy of raising her child.