@carson Hello, mum of a 27 weeker here. After a 60 day NICU stay, My advice is to
- take it one day at a time and celebrate the small wins. Being 34 weeks, your baby has a fantastic chance of survival and you hopefully won't be in the NICU for too long.
*It's also ok to cry!! Let the emotions out.
- Do all the kangaroo cuddles/skin on skin you can! It's really beneficial for both bub and you!
*you can ask what time doctors rounds are, so you can try to be there at that time to get updates on your baby direct from the dr, we found nurses would often forget information when asked later on
*pre cook meals, or ask family/friends to make some meals for you! Cooking is the last thing you want to do after a long day in hospital.
*don't be afraid to speak to other parents in the NICU, we made some great friends while there, some of which we still see now we have been discharged!
*Advocate for your baby! Don't always take what the doctors or nurses say to be the only answer.
*if breastfeeding, speak to a lactation consultant if possible if you need help, some of the info given by nurses was more hurtful than helpful
*try and do something little for yourselves, even sitting outside having a nice coffee or take away meal can do wonders for mental health
*this won't be forever! You will be able to take your precious baby home one day, and it will be one of the best days of your life.