You summarized the situation way better than me. I will reflect on resentment management. However, I also hesitate to go back to work ( tried full-time/flex/part-time and nothing looks good so far).
@freeinchrist1611 This is not fair in the least bit. So you don’t have any help, is what you’re pretty much saying.
It’s so hard to find a balance between partners, and no one has it perfectly (at least I think!) but there should be discussions around expectations and what’s fair. What you have, is not equitable.
I’ve heard the book Fair Play is a good place to start.
@freeinchrist1611 Realistically it sounds like there is a lot to pay for with prepared food and cleaners, so I might make sure he gets a break to do a good job at making the dough. In return, why not find outside help once a week to do something for yourself? Maybe an exercise class? Lots of fitness studios offer childcare, so if I were you, I’d be hitting a barre class on the weekends and blowing off some steam
