@ajewelinhiscrown It kinda seems like your wife is dictating the schedule and you’re doing your best to adhere to it. Why isn’t she buying tickets and putting stuff on the calendar..?
My husband adds stuff to the cal himself. He buys tickets himself. We also have conversations about it first to make sure it works for both of us/our plans/schedules.
Our mantra has been “together we have one brain” ever since our kid was born
This shit is HARD. It feels like you’re kinda being set up to fail when you’re this exhausted and your wife is expecting you to be the household secretary on top of it.
Do y’all alternate who gets up with the kids so you both get a full night’s sleep every other night?
I understand if your wife’s job is that demanding that that isn’t feasible… but if that’s the case, HIRE SOMEONE. You can get a personal assistant on fivrr to cover scheduling stuff.
You need a break. Your wife needs a reality check on her expectations (and you might, too). It is unreasonable to expect to be doing all this stuff well when you’re so sleep deprived. But nobody can “do it all.”