@darrin71 Please read Taking Charge Of Your Fertility by Toni Weschler. She teaches the Fertility Awareness Method which is an awesome birth control method that doesn't mees with you hormones and it gets you more in tune with your body. I'm not against birth control in any way, but I hate that I chose to rely on it for so long especially with all the damage it's done to my body. Just at least do some research on the effects hormonal birth control does on the body before getting on it!