horserider4ever
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@neo1314 Ohh when we had the foster it was definitely my fault. She did what she had to do without complaint but she never wanted it and I believe that is part of why they never attached. However I think the bigger reason was the trauma the kid dealt with.
As for the baby I don't think she blames me. I had stopped asking for a kid years ago. She knew I wanted one but I had consigned myself to never having a bio kid.
In ten years would there have been resentment if we didn't try? She thinks I would have resented her and maybe she is right...but I didn't think so I wanted the kid more than the wife in thr beggining however I am pretty good at rolling with the punches let the past be the past and enjoy today.
As for the baby I don't think she blames me. I had stopped asking for a kid years ago. She knew I wanted one but I had consigned myself to never having a bio kid.
In ten years would there have been resentment if we didn't try? She thinks I would have resented her and maybe she is right...but I didn't think so I wanted the kid more than the wife in thr beggining however I am pretty good at rolling with the punches let the past be the past and enjoy today.