@judyc
Yes, you are. Her reaction is partially due to you, and partially due to being 10.
She's 10. Her frame of reference is vastly different. Christians do not fast, its an alien concept to her. She responds as a 10 year old would, by laughing. It's not necessarily disrespectful, it's just...10. How come she wasn't aware of the neighbor's religious beliefs and practices in the first place?
+1 for wanting to teach tolerance and understanding. The best way might be to visit a mosque and arrange a talk with the Imam. Engage in thoughtful dialogue about the beliefs and customs of others, especially since they're neighbors. Maybe even arrange a play dates so 10 can incorporate this new, alien information into her otherwise homogeneous understanding of everything else about her, helping her gain perspective and context.
That you live in a neighborhood that is reflective of our larger world and heterogeneous is a good thing. You brought this on partially yourself by not using that awareness and teaching her along the way about the customs and practices of her friends and neighbors. Maybe you should fast instead. But, with 10 try a softer, gentler approach.
Am I being too drastic?
Yes, you are. Her reaction is partially due to you, and partially due to being 10.
She's 10. Her frame of reference is vastly different. Christians do not fast, its an alien concept to her. She responds as a 10 year old would, by laughing. It's not necessarily disrespectful, it's just...10. How come she wasn't aware of the neighbor's religious beliefs and practices in the first place?
+1 for wanting to teach tolerance and understanding. The best way might be to visit a mosque and arrange a talk with the Imam. Engage in thoughtful dialogue about the beliefs and customs of others, especially since they're neighbors. Maybe even arrange a play dates so 10 can incorporate this new, alien information into her otherwise homogeneous understanding of everything else about her, helping her gain perspective and context.
That you live in a neighborhood that is reflective of our larger world and heterogeneous is a good thing. You brought this on partially yourself by not using that awareness and teaching her along the way about the customs and practices of her friends and neighbors. Maybe you should fast instead. But, with 10 try a softer, gentler approach.