i know my friend didnt mean anything bad by it, but im at a point where harmless comments bother me

[therayhillfamily]

@7messrobhackopen You don't have to suffer in silence. There is too much talk about needing to wait to announce the pregnancy until after the first trimester in case of miscarriage but they would want to support you. As far as the comment they might have just not wanted the other friend there that day but didn't want it to sound like they didn't like them.

 

[confusedfather111]

@7messrobhackopen That's shitty. I had a friend tell me my partner and I are immature because we don't have kids yet. We were both early 30s.

 

[7messrobhackopen]

@confusedfather111 that’s incredibly rude and im sorry you had to hear that. hopefully your facetime with that person is little to none. ugh.

 

[confusedfather111]

@7messrobhackopen She's no longer a friend. She would say so many rude things to me and it took a lot longer than I care to admit to cut her out.

 

[bookdragon]

@7messrobhackopen If you feel comfortable it might be worth sharing that you’re TTC. It always hurts to be labeled and put in a box.

That said, there are advantages to being CF even if your goal is to have a child. So it’s ok to embrace the good parts of that while continuing on your journey. But hopefully your friend can be more sensitive to YOUR needs as well as her own.