I’m so tired of hearing what other people did/ are doing with their babies

[johanaanderso]

@charity78777 Comparison is the theif of joy.

 

[cherryberrybobo]

@charity78777 Yeah, well, my baby is writing her thesis at 5 months!

/s

Solidarity my friend. I wish those around us would respect basic boundaries.

 

[iwannaliveinspired]

@charity78777 My 6 week old just passed his drivers exam soooooo

 

[bemmmy]

@charity78777 Oh 100%. I hear it a lot. Sorry, not sorry. !

 

[cucannong]

@charity78777 My baby blows bubbles in her sleep…beat that! Lol

 

[8512stephen]

@charity78777 “This works for me/our family and I’m not willing to discuss it” always works for me when people say shit like this.

I don’t understand how anyone thinks this stuff is helpful. It’s hurtful.

You’re doing a great job, OP. Stick to your guns. You know what’s best for your baby.

 

[gdjewell]

@charity78777 This is literally my MIL. “All my babies were doing Xyz by this age” “well this is how I used to do it for my babies” “I never felt like I needed a break” “I could always tell when babies were formula fed vs breast fed bc of their behavior”

 

[cloe33fbcdavis]

@charity78777 Is it the same person? May be about time to set some boundaries or reevaluate the relationship

 

[sunsetrose]

@charity78777 Well, we have a boat and are only just considering taking our 2yo out this summer!

 

[patdude832]

@charity78777 That sounds very annoying! Sometimes we just need our family to be supportive of our decisions

 

[selah4yah]

@charity78777 I hate this. It’s like they feel it’s some sort of competition

 

[technopalms]

@charity78777 Fuck em

 

[alexis58]

@charity78777 I am experiencing this right now. My husbands cousin had a baby who is 8 months older than our 2 monther and we always hear about what she’s done and that we should do the same. I mentioned recently to my MIL that I want to do BLW and she said “oh no. X does baby purée pouches and you should too.”