@charity78777 Ugh yes this is so annoying. My family is already starting to think about thanksgiving and I told my mom we would be there but would be leaving at around 6 as they live over an hour away and we need to get home for bedtime. So we could do dinner earlier or we could miss dinner, her choice and no biggie either way. She was like “most people just push baby’s bedtime so they can enjoy special events”. I said “I already am pushing bedtime by an hour and considering you aren’t going to be the one driving home with an overtired and overstimulated screaming baby and struggling through putting him down and potential repercussions the following day, I think I’ll stick to this”.