My husband and I already have one baby, who is now a toddler.
Since before I got pregnant we talked about how we wanted two. And I’ve said pretty consistently I want them to be close together.
I don’t mind pregnancy, I don’t mind breastfeeding, but I am looking forward to the day when I don’t have to do any of those things anymore and my body is my own.
Originally our plan was to start trying for number two last cycle, but a bunch of things were up in the air so we agreed it wasn’t the right time.
All of those things have resolved themselves and I am ready to go. My husband knows this and has been avoiding “the chat.” Or he picks a time when our toddler is being particular toddlery and goes “are you sure you want two of those?” Yes. Yes I am.
No advice needed - we’ll have a good talk soon, we always do. But I just needed to vent. Feel feee to commiserate.
Since before I got pregnant we talked about how we wanted two. And I’ve said pretty consistently I want them to be close together.
I don’t mind pregnancy, I don’t mind breastfeeding, but I am looking forward to the day when I don’t have to do any of those things anymore and my body is my own.
Originally our plan was to start trying for number two last cycle, but a bunch of things were up in the air so we agreed it wasn’t the right time.
All of those things have resolved themselves and I am ready to go. My husband knows this and has been avoiding “the chat.” Or he picks a time when our toddler is being particular toddlery and goes “are you sure you want two of those?” Yes. Yes I am.
No advice needed - we’ll have a good talk soon, we always do. But I just needed to vent. Feel feee to commiserate.