@tenangsaja On the bright side, I think I've turned out ok, and TBH, this would have been a mild day for young me. I've peed from balconies, bridges, porches, moving vehicles and boats. I've mooned, skinny dipped, streaked.... And then, one day, I grew up. Well, mostly. I'm pushing 60 and still have occasional spontaneous bursts of immaturity. Give them a good talking to. If this runs your time, that's on you. You will never be perfect. Your boys will never be perfect. Don't let that reality run or ruin your life.