@joshdons Your comment about narration raises a point that’s always been interesting to me. Since so much of the way that parents in the book operate is predicated on societies that look very different from ours, to what degree should we as parents be stepping in to fill the gap of the village?
For example, I, like Michaeleen, hate playing pretend with my four year old. It’s super exhausting and boring to me. But in many other societies she would have other kids to play with for large swaths of the day. So I worry that by depriving her of imaginative play (which she almost never wants to engage in alone at this point), I’m doing her a disservice. I’m not sure that I’m right to worry but I do anyway.
Same goes for narration. In many societies, a young child would hear human speech as the primary caregivers communicate with others throughout the course of the day. But in many American households, a young child may be alone with the mother, or another caregiver or baby, all day long. So then I start to wonder if speaking to the baby becomes more important. I mean it still feels weird sometimes, but it’s already a weird setup to begin with.
Hope I’m making sense. I just think it’s interesting to think about. I don’t have an answer for any of these questions other than it’s exhausting to be the whole village.