@christians No need to convince anyone of anything. You do you. I'm a FTM at almost 37, loads of my friends are having babies this age too. Just shut out all the negativity and go live your best life. Can I also just say I am very sorry for your loss, that must be incredibly difficult for you.
@christians I don't know why people throw around adoption like you can just wander down to the orphanage and pick out a child to take home. It is often a long, difficult and very expensive process. Unless she's low key offering up one of her own children to adopt?
Your sister's opinion doesn't matter in this situation, but when I was pregnant at 38, my midwife told me they don't even consider you 'geriatric' until 40 now. So tell your sister she can pound sand and go make yo'self a baby!
@von20207777 I think she sees how I love on children. Her children are teens and young adults. I told her I’ll be fine and just be there. So she told me to do more research. My doctor said I was fine.
@christians Unless your sister is getting pregnant for you, her opinion doesn’t matter. Had my first at 40, 41 now and trying for another starting next month.
@jakesmith99 No, she’s had her stuff fixed a long time ago. She says she can’t understand me because she had hers young. I told her complications can start at any age for a woman.