@hary89 60000% this. Everyone always says not to judge, but there comes a time when someone just leaving their child to cry and scream for literally hours is neglect. If this were to happen in the day, it would be labeled as such. Yes, the exhaustion is horrible. Yes, most parents are doing the best they can with what the media and doctors have said...but there needs to be a time in life when you stop and think for yourself. In every aspect of life, especially when caring for a child. People need to be responsible and stop listening blindly.