sharpsolaris
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@roseforchrist I really hear you about doing it without help and doing what you know is right for you and your mental health! You absolutely should stick with your one and done plans. Sounds like time to firmly tell your friend to drop it.
But I also want to say your comment about your dad "refusing" to help... It's awesome when family helps out, but they don't owe it to you. It is a legit to have spent two decades raising kids and not want to do more childcare after! And do all the things that were put aside while focusing on kids! Family helping is a wonderful gift, not an obligation he's letting you down on IMO.
But I also want to say your comment about your dad "refusing" to help... It's awesome when family helps out, but they don't owe it to you. It is a legit to have spent two decades raising kids and not want to do more childcare after! And do all the things that were put aside while focusing on kids! Family helping is a wonderful gift, not an obligation he's letting you down on IMO.