@apostolicfaithone1 (Edit: my reading comprehension isn't 100%, hahaha I will note that I see you mentioned Allan Schore so I'm looking up his work now! Sorry!)
Hi
@apostolicfaithone1, I know this is a cosleeping subreddit so it's going to be heavily biased toward pro-cosleeping, but I absolutely want you to know that I'm thankful for all of your comments in this thread — every single one of them. It's all so reassuring. I am not doubting you but I wonder if you can provide some links or sources for me to look into further, because I'd LOVE to spread the word that cosleeping is natural and that babies can't self soothe until 6-7ish yrs old. I would LOVE to confidently share these facts.
You already cited a Russian orphanage study, so I'm going to look into that further, but can you add some more please? I want to share this info so badly without saying "a professional psychologist said it on reddit" — thanks for understanding!!
And if you have Discord, I'd love to please continue this discussion with further Q&A, if that's okay??
My Discord username is katsumii.
Hey, thanks again for all your comments here, knowledge, understanding, and compassion!!!