Son broke up with his girlfriend because she was too “freaky”

@jaxsn I feel like all these people are really freaking you out (maybe I don’t know) about a post that was a proud dad moment!! Good for him, you raised him a good kid, and hopefully that turns into an even better adult! 😁
Yes this can end up being a serious situation, but just make sure the photos are deleted and tell him to report to you if anything like this happens again, end of stress, for now 😁
 
@jaxsn Take this seriously. If she is under age and sending your underage son nude content then you are in possession of child pornography. Who ever owns the phone, pays the bill is liable.

Even though another party sent them. Clear them out of everything! There are cases of parents being charged for possession just because of this situation.
 
@jaxsn It’s illicit, not elicit. And did it occur to you that this behavior is a red flag in a THIRTEEN YEAR OLD CHILD??? Good on your son for not engaging, but that little girl very probably needs help from an adult, not their judgment. Report it to her school. Report it to the guidance counselor. Hell, call DCFS and tell them. Idc. But please just do something more than just pat your kid on the back and cast judgment on a 13 year old child.
 
@jaxsn I’m IT I would wipe all devices and restore only contacts also block her. I would not take any chances that she sent him something illegal.
 
@jaxsn Many years ago (before mobile sex pics), when I was 17, I was in a relationship with a girl who was the quiet, shy, innocent type.
One day, she asked me to help act out her rape fantasy. Despite this being in my bedroom, she wanted to role play that she was walking in a park and I was to grab her from behind and play some rapist role.
I was extremely uncomfortable and felt very concerned about her mental state. There were certainly a lot of questions running through my head that I wouldn't never ask her...
I managed to wriggle out of this request, turning it into regular sex instead, but there were enough alarm bells for me to split up with her shortly afterwards.
Your son did the right thing to drop her as you just don't know the kind of mayhem his ex-gf could cause if he'd ever got involved in her 'thing' - especially at the age you're talking about.
 
@navarone Curious if you knew if this girl went on to have other issues you knew about- legal or otherwise? I hope she was able to tone things down for her sake but it wasn’t a good sign.
 
@clandrovers We split very soon after and that incident was the sole time. She went on to marry with several kids and I guess lived a normal life. I was just scared that she'd try hook-ups with strangers or even speculated something happened in her past. To me, having that kind of freaky fantasy goes way past an 'acceptable' fantasy.
 
@jaxsn My 12 year old son had a girlfriend who we were concerned about because she constantly sent pictures in her bra!

However he broke up with her recently, and I was very proud of him because he is autistic so asked ChatGPT to write a brake up message to her. :D
 
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