@colleen37 I guess. We're talking about gf/bf here. Redditors tend to treat teenagers missteps as if they're egregious predators already, and as if the teenage years were not those to learn socialization.
@jessielove Even when bf/gf, consent is not implied.
And I’m not suggesting she’s a predator. I’m saying what she did was not ok and he should not have to accept it. It could well have been a mistake or a misstep on her part. They are both still learning and learning is messy.
He can set boundaries and we can support him enforcing those boundaries without condemning her.
