@xu%C3%A2n0496 I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I was in a similar situation back in November 2020. Went in around 8 weeks pregnant after trying for 8 years, only to find out I had no fetus growing. The gestational sac grew to about 7 weeks but was empty. I was in disbelief I was alone because my husband couldn’t come in to the appointment because of Covid restrictions. I was told to run up to get my blood drawn to see what my hormone levels read, I was completely numb until I came out and got in the car where my husband was waiting for me. That’s when I completely lost it, cried for our hour long commute home. In December, on my last day of work before winter break started for the preschool I work at I had a D&C performed. All Christmas gifts were thrown away because they were bought before we found out it wasn’t a viable pregnancy. I skipped Thanksgiving and Christmas with my family that year without telling them what happened. This would have been the first grand baby for my parents. How could I disappoint them by telling them I was pregnant and I lost it? It was a hard discussion and I ended up telling them on New Year’s Day what happened.
Everyone kept telling me how easy it would be for me to get pregnant again and not to be surprised if I was pregnant by the end of 2021.
Well, August 2021 comes around I’m packing for my friend’s bachelor party and I realize I’m late. I take a test and was shocked to see a plus sign. I didn’t get excited and buy anything until after my first appointment which ended up on my mom’s birthday. We ended up taking her to our first baseball game since Covid hit, where I surprised her with my ultrasound pictures. Now, I’m 37 weeks pregnant and have a breeched little dude on my hands and have to decide if I want to have him manually rotated or opt for a C-Section.
Don’t give up, after everything you were able to get pregnant after everything you tried on your own. You never know! And what I realized through everything I went through is that there are so many people that go through this same thing. You won’t know until you start to talk about it. Talking about it really helped me through it. I ended up with people to lean on.