sixthchick
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@sforb I agree with you in that I would ask if I were the alloparent but I also wonder where you draw the line. Would you ask a parent if you can read the kid a story? There's all sorts of lines we can cross unintentionally. I try to put good effort into understanding the norms of another parent before I trust them to watch my kid but after that, I give them the benefit of the doubt and maintain a solid line of communication so I can say "oh, we don't normally do that" if I don't like something.