@seen121 Very coincidentally I was thinking about this myself. I fluctuate between my pre-pregnancy weight and about 5 pounds more, which I am fine with, but I have a pooch that is more than just loose skin. I have some REALLY gnarly stretch marks because I'm a small person and my kid was/is huge and grew so quick (it was so painful my entire pregnancy, I legit started showing at the 12 week mark). I am pretty sure I have some kind of diastasis recti, and if I engage my abs it pulls really uncomfortably and sometimes painfully on one side. If I relax completely, I still look a few months pregnant, and it's lopsided; so I pooch out more on one side.
One breast also hangs a good bit lower than the other now and I know the only solution for that would be a lift. I have stretch marks on both breasts as well (I literally went from a small c cup to over a D cup and then even bigger once I started lactating, it was so painful). I remember seeing a woman with stretch marks like mine years before getting pregnant and being horrified over it too. My husband has said nothing except he definitely likes my wider hips and doesn't look away from me when I'm naked, but it's still so hard for me and my son is almost a year and a half old. My c-section scar is actually REALLY close to invisible, I say all the time my surgeon was awesome, and it doesn't bother me at all, bit the rest does.