@seen121 I'm in the camp of "our bodies look how they're meant to look". We're okay and normal. It's society that has a warped view on women's bodies. ie: doja cat recently got dragged for having natural breasts... as a 27yo woman with 0 kids. It actually made me feel really good to see her natural boobs and how they looked similar to mine before pregnancy. We hardly ever see that represented.
I had considered a lift (even before preg.), but decided that there was no reason for me to feel like I looked "wrong".. that was only what was drilled into my brain my entire life.
If you get surgery, you're insecure, "plastic", fake, and "cheating". If you're natural, you're still not good enough so you better be paying for non-invasive procedures that hardly work.
This is an intentional design to support many multibillion dollar industries that profit off our self hatred.
A woman's body looks how it looks and all of us look different, and that's normal and okay. Make the choices that are right for you, but try to separate your real feelings vs what we're pressured to believe. I want to normalize whatever naturally happens to my body so I can normalize for my kid too. I don't want the cycle of self hatred to continue with me after experiencing my moms insecurities. I've had to do a lot of work on myself emotionally, so I'm just sharing my personal opinion.
I had considered a lift (even before preg.), but decided that there was no reason for me to feel like I looked "wrong".. that was only what was drilled into my brain my entire life.
If you get surgery, you're insecure, "plastic", fake, and "cheating". If you're natural, you're still not good enough so you better be paying for non-invasive procedures that hardly work.
This is an intentional design to support many multibillion dollar industries that profit off our self hatred.
A woman's body looks how it looks and all of us look different, and that's normal and okay. Make the choices that are right for you, but try to separate your real feelings vs what we're pressured to believe. I want to normalize whatever naturally happens to my body so I can normalize for my kid too. I don't want the cycle of self hatred to continue with me after experiencing my moms insecurities. I've had to do a lot of work on myself emotionally, so I'm just sharing my personal opinion.