Kids father planning to vanish until they’re 18

[alvinc]

@jennyjohn I didn’t ask for how many single parent homes. No ones out here denying that a healthy, stable two parent home is the most ideal situation. But life happens, people fail us, remaining together in an unhappy marriage for the sake of children is not better for anyone.
And now you’re out here saying single father households are better? Where are you pulling this from? We are on a single parenting sub- I think everyone here knows the struggles of being a single parent better than the average person. No one needs to be told them.

 

[jayjaydee]

@jennyjohn You fucked your argument, bro. You were comparing single fathers to single mothers and site since parent. Fix your argument or don’t argue at all.

 

[alvinc]

@jennyjohn Genuinely wondering after reading this post you can still be confused on whether he’s a good father? The man up and left, lied about being blocked to stir up conflict and look like a victim, and now thinks he can disappear until they turn 18 and expect for a relationship to exist after leaving them high and dry for years.
A good father doesn’t screw over their partner and their children.

 

[jennyjohn]

@alvinc Well the kids are 8 and 5. The guy was okay for some number of years?