@sam77 I'd pack up some clothes and the baby with her things and stay at my mom's for a bit if this were happening to me. My mom died years ago and I'd give anything to spend time with her again or have her help with my babies, her grandkids. Please don't waste your time on someone who wants to micromanage and control your life and who you spend time with and when. Life is way too short & fleeting to be sobbing your eyes out over a man who's supposed to be doing the opposite of what he's doing. You don't have to leave LEAVE, but maybe spend a week or two with your mom, a friend, anyone you trust, and tell your husband this is something you need and if he can't respect that, well then tough luck.
You deserve peace.
You deserve peace.